Omg, thank you for that link! It was so helpful and I was able to look up an ace spectrum quiz. I figured it out and am really happy since I can now work around it 😌 thank you!

Thanks for your anecdotes, they do line up with what I’ve heard other friends express as their experience.

I guess then I don’t know how to label myself then? I don’t even know how to fully explain my experience to myself since I’m still figuring it out. I like how labels work for others, but find labeling myself kinda icky since I doubt I’m understanding myself right on a spectrum created by others. Idk, its all just kinda confusing and I agree that it just kinda had to be okay. Part of the journey of self discovery and improvement. What do you think?